A parenting expert, Mr. Akinropo Akinola, advocates for parents to share ancestral stories with their children, emphasizing its role in fostering emotional resilience.
Speaking at the 22nd Women in Management and Business annual conference in Lagos, Akinola suggests that such narratives contribute to children’s understanding of the complexities of life.
He points out that children often face identity challenges and may believe their existence solely originates from them. This perception makes them susceptible to untold attacks, especially when outside their home country.
Akinola believes that sharing ancestry stories serves as a powerful strategy for addressing these challenges.
According to Akinola, recounting familial history provides a rich narrative that instills a sense of identity and belonging in children.
Understanding the challenges and triumphs of their ancestors allows children to gain a broader perspective on adversity. They learn that setbacks are a natural part of the human experience.
Akinola emphasizes that the narrative thread of ancestral stories helps children comprehend life’s complexities.
It allows them to acknowledge setbacks as a natural part of human existence, fostering the idea that resilience runs deep within their family lineage.
This knowledge becomes a source of inspiration during difficult times, reinforcing their ability to confront and navigate life’s uncertainties.
Additionally, Akinola highlights that sharing ancestral stories can cultivate a deeper emotional connection within the family.
He counters the notion that everything about ancestors is evil, encouraging parents to foster open communication and a supportive environment where children feel comfortable expressing their emotions.
Akinola concludes by emphasizing the positive aspects of ancestral stories.
He notes that ancestors held various noble professions, such as warriors, native doctors, teachers, musicians, goldsmiths, and farmers.
Sharing these diverse stories can build children’s confidence and resilience, empowering them to stand against bullying and other challenges.
